A Relationship Quiz

1.	Both of us decide what we want to do when we're together.	True	False
2.	My partner teases me in a mean way and embarrasses me in front of my friends.	True	False
3.	If I want to participate in an activity without my partner he/she does not object.	True	False
4.	I am starting to feel isolated from friends I had before.	True	False
5.	My feelings and wishes are important to my partner.	True	False
6.	My partner is often drunk or stoned.	True	False
7.	My partner is very jealous of my other friendships.	True	False
8.	My partner has hurt me physically, although he/she was sorry afterward.	True	False
9.	I always try to please my partner, and I feel responsible if things go wrong.	True	False
10.	There are often times when I feel pressured into sex.	True	False
11.	My partner often criticizes the way I look or act.	True	False
12.	My friends or family are concerned about my relationship.	True	False

Give yourself 2 points if you answer False to questions 1, 3 and 5.
(Zero points if answered True)

Give yourself 2 points if you answer True to questions 2, 4, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 and 12.
(Zero points if answered False)

* If you scored 8 points or more you may be in an abusive relationship. *

Source: The Empowerment Project