Am I in an Abusive Relationship?

Yes, my partner:

• treats me like I “belong” to them
• tells me that if “they can’t have me, then nobody will have me”
• stops me from seeing my family and friends
• make me live in a remote or isolated area
• takes my pay cheque from me
• refuses to give me money, transportation or access to a telephone
• abuses alcohol and/or drugs
• has a history of depression
• has hurt or killed my pet in order to frighten or punish me
• has forced me to stay awake
• tell me that no else could ever love me
• has broken or damaged things that are special to me
• has endangered my (and my children) by reckless driving
• has tried to convince me to stay with them by making me feel guilty, threatening suicide, etc.
• threatens to kill me or my loved ones
• threatens to commit suicide
• uses a weapon against me and/or others
• used physical violence with me before
• ignores court orders such as a peace bond, restraining order, or bail conditions
• is sexually abusive, forcing or expecting me to do sexual acts which make me feel uncomfortable
• yes, I have had to call the police or wanted to, because I feared what my partner might do.

If you have experienced any of the above, you are strongly urged to take some action to plan for your safety.

You are not alone. These are people who will listen and support you. Call them, they can help.

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